I would hope that any rational person would understand the risks associated with this industry. My pre-screening process is an attempt to minimize my risk of physical harm and protect myself legally.
I do not wish to misuse your information, exploit your identity, or do anything else that would cause you to regret contacting me.
The goal is to create an ongoing friendship with you, not to scare you away. I have no desire to be in the presence of some anonymous person! If you are still not comfortable with identifying yourself, please do not waste your time or mine contacting me for an exception.